【Revised Version】Monday, July 27th, 2015

My younger brother, a person whose view in life is in stark contrast to mine; despite being only two year younger to me. He once asked me a question once, “Brother, why are you so industrious? Where are you going in life?” which truly struck at the core of my being. My ambition allows me to overcome the challenges which prevent me from reaching my goal; my brother is a free spirit whose present infatuation is with surfing. Before aiming to become a champion surfer, it was to be a sailor. My only retort was, “An industrious life will lead to a better life for sure. You would do well to think the same”. He replied, “I may lead you to a wealthier life, not necessarily happier”. “You are right in some cases. However, there are some people are happier when they feel like they are moving towards something better” I said after a moment of thought. What he said next, “Those are boring people, they have not yet found themselves. Their happiness depends on other people and things thus they are not truly living their life” and with that he pointed out my biggest insecurity and conflict with my world view. I fear that at the end of my path, I will be simply hollow with riches around me without having a life enriched by my efforts. However, I am committed to this path and my future rests in my hands. Ironically, despite accusing me of making judgements of on his path, my brother has judged mine nonetheless. Perhaps we are brothers afterall…